Think like a guy dating
So it's more than a little irritating to hear about your fascination with the jerk who has mastered the art of illusion: He's there, but not really.
It's a vicious cycle—the more men feel those guys get the benefits of your time and attention, the more incentive we have to become those guys.
We Respect You as Females—and Love What Makes You Women It is sad to say that equality in our times means adopting the worst of both sexes: Men get more sexualized and women can be cruder. Show us who's boss and give us good directions—you already know we don't do well asking for them.
Tell us, too, when we've been a good father, a caring son or a helpful husband. We Are Brutally Honest Because We Care We know that, at times, tact can be the only four-letter word that doesn't describe us, but women need to rethink their reactions to male candor.
Men lie and obfuscate with people they have no interest in.
Especially not about girlish things, like if those jeans show off our assets.
But the truth is, men enjoy a little well-intentioned objectification.